A 18 years old friend wants to go to ballet school. But everyone is scaring him off, saying that ballet is only for gay. There are people out there who label anything that is not their cup of thee as being gay, black or Jewish. Even free fighting is labeled as gay….. I used to do full contact karate KyoKushinKai. So I know that maybe the majority of the participants where not-gay. Or maybe I do not know. Because doing something you like has nothing to do with your sexual orientation. So I am gay doing my full contact sports and not gay acting at the same time. How relaxed it is to do (sports) activities without having to think about your orientation. I prefer a world where common activities and groups are not exclusive for one kind of people. As soon as everyone is free to join there would be more mutual understanding and cultural exchange. That would make the world happier.